15 Questions to Ask Your Date to Really Get to Know Them

Want to get to know your date on a deeper level? Below are some suggestions from current daters, to spark an engaging conversation

  1. What would constitute your ideal/ perfect day?

  2. What does your typical day look like?

  3. What’s your most treasured memory?

  4. What is your relationship with your family like?

  5. Who do you feel closest to in your life?

  6. Which type of airport person are you, early or late arrival?

  7. Would you rather stay in or go out?

  8. What is your biggest pet peeve?

  9. What was your dream job as a child?

  10. Are you still close with your childhood friends?

  11. What do you do in your free time?

  12. What is something you want to learn?

  13. What is something you wish you were better at?

  14. What is your dream vacation?

  15. Do you like what you do for work?

You are not alone in this. You are not the only one who struggles to create conversation or feels over-pressured by today’s dating environment. Join one of our dating support groups! Build self-confidence and self-esteem, learn to cope with and manage dating anxieties, explore your relational patterns, learn attachment styles and their relation to your dating, talk about your dating experiences, learn to hold conversations, express your interests, and determine what you are looking for in a relationship through identifying your needs and values, recognizing red and green flags in potential relationships, and setting and respecting boundaries. During meetings, we will address swiping fatigue, and will designate time to utilize dating apps, encourage and feed off group members to formulate responses and reply to potential daters, practice putting yourself out there, and restore a sense of accountability and community to your dating journey and make it enjoyable and fun.


Meet Ciara

Ciara leads groups on dating and also acts as a coach and therapist at our practice.

Alix Sasse